Lately, I have been having lots of conversations with people who are feeling really STUCK.
Stuck in jobs they don’t like, jobs that are stressful, tiring, draining, and where they are feeling unappreciated.
Stuck searching for meaningful relationships with a partner that will love and value them.
Stuck in life in general. I have talked to people that are really trying to figure out their gift, life purpose or meaning for being here.
I can relate to all three.
I have been in jobs that I hated. I was unappreciated, stressed, constantly tired and frustrated.
I have been single meeting all the wrong women in all the wrong places (sounds like a country song I know), and I wondered if I would ever find the right woman and fortunately for me and with God’s grace, I now have my amazing wife.
There was also a time when I was stuck in life, searching for more meaning and purpose and really discouraged, depressed, and lost. Through building my confidence, personal development surrounding myself with mentors and coaches, it all changed and I leaped forward in life.
Why am I telling you all of this?
Well, first I want you to know that no matter what you are going through, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
Whatever you are struggling with right now, your health, relationship, career, finances, raising your kids, school, or anything else; you are not alone.
It is important for you to know that other people are facing similar challenges and you are not going through your challenges by yourself, even though you may feel as though you are.
It is also important that you reach out to others, either people close to you that you can trust or mentors, coaches or an offline or online community.
The second reason I am telling you this is because you have the ability to change your life for the better.
Look, I’m not a cheerleader sitting on the sidelines with some pompoms telling you what you want to hear. (No offense to any cheerleaders or coaches who call themselves cheerleaders, there’s a time for that but it aint now).
Now is not the time for me to be your cheerleader. It’s time for me to be your Life Co-pilot. I need to take the wheel from you for a minute.
You can change your life. You can do amazing things. You can achieve goals bigger than you imagined. You are awesome and you have a gift that people need from you.
In exploring and sharing your gift, you will find pieces of yourself that you didn’t know existed.
Before you can do that though…You have a decision to make…
Are you going to be a driver or a passenger in your own life?
I want you to really think about this.
If you don’t know, I wrote a book called You Have The Keys Now Drive available on Amazon.
I wrote the book to help people that are stuck or want more success; happiness and fulfillment in their lives get what they want.
The reason for the title of the book is simple; you are the driver of your life. You own the car, have the keys, and you can drive your life in any direction you want.
You see, we often look to others to provide us with answers to how to get what we want or how to solve our problems, and yes sometimes others can help, but essentially it is up to you to decide to take action.
Since I came this far with it, I`m just going to keep it all the way real.
Are you a passenger in your own life?
Are you waiting for someone or something to come along and tap you on the shoulder and say, “here’s the life you want?”
Do you think your goals and dreams are going to magically happen without you taking massive action?
Is your situation going to get better by you doing nothing?
I’ll answer this one for you. No.
Your life will not get better and you will not live your amazing life if you are a passenger. If you sit back and wait for things to happen, or wait for things to get better, or wait for things to change it’s highly likely they won’t or they won’t change to the level that you deserve.
Do NOT be a passenger in your life. Take control.
Make a conscious effort to do some things differently.
Follow your curiosity.
And your life will change for the better.
I know because my life has changed dramatically.
My coaching client’s lives have changed dramatically.
People I have mentored lives have changed dramatically.
All because we became drivers and not passengers.
If you are feeling lost or need help moving forward, and you are searching for more purpose and meaning AND you want to make a greater impact in the world, join my Passion Impact Profit Coaching Program. Learn how to turn your passion into into profit and find your purpose.
You have everything within you to to live the life you want, however it starts with you making a decision. You have to make the decision to do something different to create the life you want.
Wishing you all of the success and happiness you deserve.
I truly believe this..
There’s something special about you, find out what it is and live it out loud!
Let me know your thoughts on this post. Leave a comment below and let me know if I am missing anything.
I want to hear from you.
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