What you say to yourself you believe about yourself, what you don’t say to yourself doesn’t exist! Let me say this again, Self-talk is important because what you say to yourself you believe about yourself, what you don’t say to yourself doesn’t exist. Therefore, if you look in the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are amazing. Awesome, unstoppable, a great parent, the best partner, excellent at your job, you will believe it. And if you believe it, you can achieve it. If you look in the mirror and do t like what you see, you hate your job, your relationship could be a lot better, you will never get out of debt, then you’re in luck, chances are that will be your reality.
When you can change your perspective, you can change your situation and change your life. You can live your best life. I say it because it is true it was possible for me, it was possible for hundreds of people I have coached and it is possible for you. You see you have been through difficult situations in the past and you have been faced with tough choices and you made it through. When you are stuck or lost in some aspect of your life or life, in general, you cannot see it from any other perspective other than a halted one.
I remember when I was working for this nonprofit organization as a career specialist and career workshop facilitator. I had been there for about 5 years and I was feeling stuck. I wasn’t learning much more than the previous years, there was no growth opportunities and the pay was not great at all. I was feeling really stuck. I didn’t feel like I was giving my best on the job and I really had to be at my best because I was affecting people’s lives, families lives because most of my clients had families and had been on some type of social assistance and we’re now trying to finding meaningful work, so I needed to be at my best, but I just was not passionate about working in that environment. I was stuck, feeling lost, thinking I had more to offer but opportunities were limited.
I sat down and wrote what I liked about the job and what I didn’t like. I was shocked. When I looked at my list I realized there were a lot more things I liked about the job then I didn’t like. What that did not as help re-energize me and give me a new perspective. It sparked something in me that actually led me to craft a goal to take all of the tools that I had developed and leave the job. I actually discovered that I want to leave Nova Scotia and start fresh somewhere else. It sparked the confidence in me to take action at that time. The point is that when you realize the gifts that you have, talk positively to yourself, treat yourself well, and take time to understand who you are and where you are in life, it will unlock things that you didn’t even imagine. It allowed me to have a deeper understanding of my greatness and develop a brave approach to stepping into living my best life.
You can do this. You can change your language, change your perspective and change your life!
Danny, Your Mindset Coach
Danny Stone is a Speaker, Mindset Coach and Author of the best-selling book, You Have The Keys, Now Drive. For more than 15 years he has been helping people get more clarity, take massive action, and create the lives they want. He’s helped countless individuals move from the passenger seat to become the drivers of their lives. If you are struggling in your life or business and want more success and happiness, contact Danny to set up your Free Clarity Call.
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